(Post date: 2006-11-15) Between two human beings is a most marvellous thing,it
cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it....It is a sort of
devine accident.Love..is always bestowed as a free gift willingly and without expectation.
Love brings joy,happiness comfort.
(Post date: 2005-04-01) Loving ourselves -- being as compassionate, gentle, and loving with ourselves as we would with a best friend -- can be pretty hard to do. This is especially true for women and survivors of abuse (including neglect).
As women and survivors, we've been trained to deny our own feelings and needs, and to take care of others. And we're also frequently given messages that tell us not to accept or love ourselves. This is especially true for survivors; it's so easy for us to take in the hating messages our abusers gave us, and to turn that inwards on ourselves.
But it is possible to love ourselves -- or at least to increase our self-love in increments, until we can know, deep to our cores, that we love ourselves, and that we're beautiful. Here are some of the things that have worked for me. I hope you'll find they work for you, too.
Ask for a list of things people like about you.
Sometimes it can be hard to find things we like or love about ourselves. So -- ask other people to tel ...Click title for full Article